As I poked
around in the garage for another
extension cord, I saw the stack of
fishing rods and my mind drifted off
to fishing. I love to fish but the
past few years simply haven't had the
opportunity to get out.
Before we sold
the old house and moved to our condo,
we had a small boat. When we had the
boat I could count on a least a few
days every season of sitting on the
water and fishing. There was no place
to store it at the condo so we sold
the boat. So much for getting out.
Back to the
fishing rods ... nearby were my tackle
boxes. I'm sure fishing tackle is
designed to catch fishermen not fish.
I have my favorite lures but there's
always something new to try. With the
tackle boxes is my box of reels. That
reminded me that one of the reels had
been put away with a serious line
tangle that needed to be sorted out. A
Fishing line,
like rope and extension cord seems to
have a mind of its own when it comes
to being tangled. It just seems to
decide to get tangled and then ends up
in knots.
Like fishing
line, rope and cords, we too can end
up all tied up in knots. Perhaps not
physically (unless you're a lot more
flexible than I am), but certainly
emotionally and spiritually.
One of the
biggest causes of the knots in our
lives is unforgiveness. When we walk
in unforgiveness we end up in bondage.
The longer we walk that way the more
tied up we become.
We're commanded
to forgive.
For if you
forgive men when they sin against
you, your heavenly Father will also
forgive you. But if you do not
forgive men their sins, your Father
will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
Wait a minute!
What if they are at fault? What if
they really wronged us in some serious
way? Are we supposed to forgive them?
ABSOLUTELY!
If there was no wrong done there would
be nothing to forgive would there?
That doesn't mean that we have to
place ourselves in a position where
than they can harm us again, but it
does mean we must make a conscious,
obedient decision to forgive.
What if you
don't want to forgive? Too bad! Jesus
tells us to forgive. It's not a matter
of whether you want to or not. It's a
matter of obeying the Lord of your
life. He knows you can't do it on your
own, but if you go to Him in prayer
and ask, He will help you to forgive.
If you choose to
walk in unforgiveness, it is you who
loses. Often the person we're holding
in unforgiveness neither knows nor
cares if we have forgiven them or not.
Until next time,
forgive, just as you have been
forgiven.
Hallelu Yah
(Praise God)
Be blessed
Kevin